KUALA LUMPUR: The proposal to set up special shelters for men who were abused by their wives is now seen as relevant and necessary.
Universiti Kebangsaan Malaysia, psychology counseling lecturer Muhammad Ajib Abd Razak said in western countries, such shelters had long existed, with various modules and intervention methods used comprehensively to help the victims.
“In the West, the people have an open attitude and keep to the principles of human rights,” he told Bernama here.
However, he said, the proposal might not yet sink in because of society’s negative perception, stigma and prejudice against abused husbands.
“The husband is seen, from the context of cultural practices, religion, race and ethnicity, as a symbol of leadership and guidance for the wife,” he said.
He added that the proposal must take into account the confidentiality and safety of those concerned.
“The proposal is seen as giving men a way to resolve their family issues. They also need help such as counseling, advice from the ulamas or family members,” he said.
Recently, Women, Family and Community Development Minister Datuk Seri Rohani Abdul Karim said the government would consider setting up a special shelter for men who were victims of domestic violence.
Rohani said these men faced the same situation as battered wives.
Meanwhile, members of the public interviewed by Bernama were positive about the proposal.
“The shelter could be a temporary centre for these men to recover as the effects (of the abuse) are the same as those experienced by female victims and could cause them to lose self-confidence,” said Mohd Azlan Abu, 35.
Hafis Mazlan, 45, said the proposed shelter must be well-equipped to help the victims.
“The victims could be so traumatised to the extent that they become overly wary and fearful of women,” he said. – Bernama